Loneliness
When you are dating or in a relationship, you should not feel lonely. What if you do? There are a few questions you should ask yourself. First off, are you being too sensitive? Many times we get wrapped up in what we want and forget our partner has a life too. It is easy to slip into if one person is sensitive and the other is not. The one that is not sensitive may feel smothered by the one that is and so the argument begins.
The second question should be, what is their life like right now? Maybe you miss them , although they have so much going on they have not had the chance to slow down and even think about you. Which of course begs the question; how much do they really care if they don’t think of me at all? That is question only time a patience can answer.
The last question you need to ask is two fold. How long have I felt lonely while being in a relationship and more importantly, what is worse, calling it quits because your significant other is not around or continuing what you are experiencing. Only you can answer these questions. No one can tell you how you feel inside.
In the end it all comes down to love, how much you feel from that person, how much you give back. How much loneliness you can take and how long will you tolerate it from them. Love is yours and yours alone, who you choose to give it to and take away from is also your decision.
April 13th, 2008 at 8:52 am
The one thing that I have realized most, is that you should always pay continued attention and focus on what matters most…your loved one. I’ve made a huge mistake…and my love has been screaming out for years. I never recognized this, until now. No matter what happens in your life, the root is your love for your companion. Neglect serves no one good, even the one who is neglecting. I wish that things could be different. I wish I could reverse the clock and change all the mistakes that I have made over the years. While, I keep trying to rebuild, our relationship has been on such a downhill spiral that nothing that is said or done, is interpreted any longer for the correct reasons and intentions. That goes both ways…
I have not figured out how to take away hurt, that I have imposed on my love. I don’t know that you can…
I miss the one I love…