A Fool in Love
Are you a fool in love? I am pretty sure I am. First off let me say that if you have not been in a long distance relationship, they suck. Furthermore, let me say, if you are in a relationship where you are the one in love and devoted and the other person can’t make up their mind, that sucks even worse. Does this make you a fool in love? Maybe. There’s more though…
What happens when you hear nothing from the other person one night, only to find out they were home the entire night, according to them, and they decided not to return your call AND not return any text message until 3am in the morning. You even called them TWO minutes after they texted you and they didn’t pick up. Hmm…Fool in love? Maybe. There’s more though…
What if the next day they call from a place they KNEW they would not be able to talk and more importantly, THAT is when you find out, according to them, they were home all night and they make no reason or care that they did not return your call or text until 3am. Fool in love? Getting more convincing, yes? But wait, there’s more…
You don’t talk to them the rest of the day and night. The next day you hear nothing from them, so later in the day you text just telling them you hope they are alright and all you get, at almost 9PM that night, is an email telling you they lost their phone the night before and they hoped you had a good weekend. Fool in love? Definitely. Why try anymore? Because your a fool, and the other person knows it and will keep taking advantage of it.
The big deal here is why was I the last person on Sunday night to find out about the phone. You mean to tell me the other person didn’t realize they didn’t have their phone on them when they got home to put the phone on charge? They didn’t have access to a computer to send the wonderful email a night before? Or maybe they never came home that night? Who were they with? What did they do? The next day, they didn’t have access to a phone to tell you they were ok? Or maybe they told the people they ‘really’ care for about the phone issue. And I was just the last in the line.
The bigger deal is that I am three days in and I still have no answers. The other person obviously doesn’t care for me the way I care for them otherwise they would have made some type of effort to make sure I knew they were ok considering I could not reach them and heard nothing from them.
I have asked a few people because I want to make sure I am not off the deep end here. All of them agreed with me and said that it’s just shitty that so much is left up as mystery.
So, I guess I am the fool in love. One big idiot.
