The problem with love is no one does it the same way.  You want to see him, he doesn’t want to see you.  You want don’t want to see her, she wants to see you.  Or maybe, simply, everything for that other person is more important than you.  No matter what you do or how you act, the other person simply does not care, show they care or has more important things they want to do.

So, what do you do?  Well that really comes down to how much you can or want to deal with it.  Or maybe it simply has to do with how much more you can take or how much you think you love them.  I mean let’s face it, do you really know love?  How are you sure?  What makes this love not as good as the next one or better than the last one?

The major dilemma here is really habit.  How much are you used to talking to that person?  Or how much are you used to the routine with that person?  How much will you miss the things you did when that person is not around?

The answer is up to you.  Are you strong enough to make the decision that the relationship is not working.  Can you live without the habits you have grown so accustomed to. Then, and probably most importantly can you live with out touching, feeling and talking to that person.

Which all these are great questions, although they lead us back to the main reason I started writing this in the beginning.  Can you do without the habits you have grown accustomed to with that person.  Or maybe a better way to ask that questions is:  How much do you hurt now in comparison with how much you will miss the habit?

Only you can answer that one.